What do you use to lead to you . . . or to help you make decisions? I think it is scary to not know which way to go because your head wants one thing and your heart wants another. Or even your head and your heart are working towards one goal, and then, your head and your heart are also equally, working towards another. What is that called? A broken heart? That's ironically funny. So how do you know what is right and what is wrong.
I think when I start dwelling on something, instead of listening to my head or heart, I try to make a decision about what is right and wrong, or fair, or a compromise. They are never easy and I am never 100% confident in them. In fact, I don't think I will ever be.
I put predictive values on my decisions . . . the farther I can see into a decision makes me more likely go in that direction. Maybe that is my attempt at knowing which way to go . . . is that the right way to go about things? Probably not, because change is inevitable.
Why am I so afraid of making a mistake?
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I try to gather as much information as possible about things, but I also try to let answers reveal themselves in the moment. Intuition is very powerful. If you listen to yourself, and pay attention to the "omens"(taking from the book 'The Alchemist'), answers come much more easily. Don't overthink anything! Hope you're doing well!
ReplyDelete-Andrew
Hey Mala, stay with your head!
ReplyDeleteit might hurt for some time but in long run you wont regret - YOU KNOW THAT
Im really proud of You, but pick up your phone:)